More about the format
How the evening usually flows
The structure is simple: a short welcome round if people feel like introducing themselves, then smaller conversations, breaks for drinks or fresh air, and a gradual winding down later in the evening. Nothing too choreographed, which tends to help.
What makes this meetup special
- a mix of expats, internationals, and local English speakers
- all discussions in English, without pressure to sound polished
- different cultural perspectives on relationships in one room
- a welcoming place for people who are new to Vienna
Common topics
- dating and building community in Vienna as an expat
- different relationship norms across cultures
- long-distance poly relationships and international logistics
- jealousy, trust, boundaries, and communication
- coming out as poly in an international context
- practical aspects of poly life in Austria
Practical information
- the calendar is the source for the current venue, at the moment usually WerkzeugH
- the reservation is usually under "MonoPoly English", so staff can point you in the right direction
- a quick registration helps the team stay organized and contact you if needed (link in the calendar entry)
- hosted by Gergely
- Gergely usually brings a red pillow, which makes the group easier to spot
What this is not
- not a dating event
- not a closed group
- not therapy or coaching
- not a formal workshop
Your first visit
- come as you are, no special preparation needed
- it is completely fine to just listen for a while
- you can leave whenever you want
- there is no pressure to share personal details
- many people there are first-timers as well